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Compassion for the Afflicted

About Justice

Jesus comforted the afflicted, and afflicted the comfortable.

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Christ Chapel Assembly of God

Christ Chapel: Pastoral Sex Abuse

Eventually, the truth comes out as people see with their own eyes the lies, victim-blaming and arrogance that surface when a church and its senior leadership desperately try to deny responsibility for repeated instances of pastoral sexual abuse.

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Herman Cain

Herman Cain

As Christians, we must speak truth to power, but with integrity and without applying double standards!

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lies

Silence = Death

To those who have been violated, and to those who know, may God give you the grace to find the voice they took from you.

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Man of God

Narcissists with Power

I’ve finally come to realize that the most dangerous people, and the most charming, are narcissists with power.

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Christ Chapel Assembly of God

Hypocrisy and Courage

If we don’t value the sexuality of our young enough to expose and stop leaders who have become sexual thieves, then why should we expect our young to also value sexual integrity?

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Hurt and Confusion

Beauty from Ashes

I take on pastoral sex abuse cases not only because I believe in justice, but because I also believe in redemption. Often, I have the privilege of seeing God’s grace shine through as healing comes and the survivors begin to find the strength to reclaim their lives – and their stolen voices.

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Shameful Silence

When loyalty to the leader trumps integrity, and folks sit silent, then it’s no longer a church – it’s a cult.

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Tearing Apart

The Buffers Between Us

I was hungry and you were glad you voted for politicians who supported food stamps…

I was destitute and you wondered if there was a homeless shelter nearby…

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Phoney

Confronting Abusive Pastors, Part 4: Civil and Criminal Law

So you’ve tried to follow the procedure of 1 Tim. 5, as discussed in Part 3 of this series, by investigating and exposing church leaders who abused their positions of power and trust. But what if you were rebuffed? Or what if – despite public reprimand, confession and repentance – you reasonably fear that they [...]

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Confronting Abusive Pastors, Part 3: A Mandatory Public Reprimand

What if an unrepentant leader’s sin is public and brings reproach on the church, or is an abuse of his position of trust and power in the church? Then he must be openly rebuked as a public warning to all – no exceptions! 1 Timothy 5 teaches this.

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Christ Chapel Assembly of God

Confronting Abusive Pastors, Part 2: How Should We React?

How should we react to an unrepentant pastor who’s used his position of trust and power to prey on women – often after turning to him for spiritual counsel and support during vulnerable times in their lives?

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Confronting Abusive Pastors, Part 1: My Personal Angst

Much to my dismay, God keeps bringing people to my door who have been abused by a pastor or other trusted church leader. Over the last year, I’ve taken on three cases against abusive pastors. Two involve significant embezzlement and fraud by pastors in different churches. A third involves extensive sexual abuse and misconduct by [...]

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My Prayer

How long, Lord, will you continue to tolerate those leaders among us who bring shame on your name and prey on your people? How long, Lord, will you tolerate those who enable such predators, thus allowing even more harm to your precious children? For your name’s sake, bring righteousness and judgment. Purify your Church, Lord, [...]

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A Very Public Confession

Here’s a news brief I came across that really stood out. In it, the CEO for Continental Airlines admits that his company in the past was racist and refused to hire black pilots. Past racism, in and of itself, is hardly surprising. What is surprising, however, is the candor of Continental’s public confession and the [...]

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Pimping the Gospel

For the prosperity gospel televangelists, God’s highest purpose is to bless me by satisfying my carnal desires for wealth, health and power – but only if I bless them first.

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Embrace

The Gift of Mercy

Mercy is the most powerful, but most abused, of all the spiritual gifts.

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The "Apostle"

New Covenant Fellowship? Beware!

New Covenant Fellowship in Manassas, Virginia, has seen massive numbers of people leave as the church sinks into cult practices and cult doctrines, with massive fraud and improprieties by its remaining “leaders”.

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Fellowship and Light

“This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth:  But if we walk in the light, as he [...]

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Incomplete Man

Dealing With Church Leadership Abuse

So how do we handle leadership failings, especially when they go beyond merely personal sin and involve an abuse of position or trust which harms the church and hurts others?

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